There’s nothing more thrilling than not knowing your lover’s next move. That’s what makes bondage so exciting in the bedroom. It’s the element of surprise that causes a major flutter in the undercarriage. In fact, a 2013 study in The Journal of Sexual Medicine found that couples who dabbled in the bondage lifestyle reported a healthier and more satisfying sex life. If you’re ready to take your love life from vanilla to spicy, it all comes down to fashion and a little imagination.

The essential accouterment for setting the mood is a collection of fetish lingerie, the star attraction of your epic bondage fantasy. According to ‘sexperts,’ the definition of a fetish involves the sexual fixation on an inanimate object, especially fetish lingerie and accessories, which often serve as the main event in bondage play.

For a powerful look that channels your inner dominatrix, vinyl and shiny patent leather are the ultimate in vampy kink. And in the world of fantasy lingerie, the possibilities are seemingly endless with the iconic fabrics that define kinkiness. A perfect look to get you in a naughty mood is the classic sex appeal of the body-sculpting corset, which cinches in the waist and accentuates sexy cleavage.

Or, turn up the volume with an edgy leather négligée that dares to bare. A decadent look is the two-piece bra and panty set made with silver-studded leather, an irresistible design that toughens up classic lingerie. For more coverage and a slimming effect from top to bottom, look for one-piece vinyl bodysuits with open cutouts and leather strap details. Whether you go for a retro glam look or modern, come-hither edge, black is a powerful and alluring shade that creates a sleek monochromatic silhouette and helps simulate a sexy hourglass figure.  

In the fashion world, it’s the accessories that make the outfit. The same can be said of fetish lingerie. For maximum attitude and a confident stride, add a few punk luxe accents to your outfit, like fishnet stockings and chunky, come-hither stilettos or high-heeled boots. For vintage sex appeal, add a feather boa and a statement necklace such as a choker with rhinestone details for a hint of sparkle. 

For a fun and playful scenario, tie up the submissive partner to the bedpost with a pair of fuzzy handcuffs or a soft satin sash. Now that they’re at the mercy of the dominant lover, it’s time to break out the weapon of choice. For a soft bondage fantasy, a feather tickler makes an irresistible accessory that gently pushes your lover to the brink. Or, take things up a notch with a whip, the quintessential accessory for disciplining a lover who’s been extra naughty. Another option for kinky ‘sexplorations’ is the leather choker and leash, which gives the dominant partner a wicked and daring way to control the submissive.

Whether your bondage fantasy is PG-13 or X-rated, slip into a kinky fetish lingerie outfit, get out the sexy accouterments, and get ready for a wild evening of sinful delights in between the sheets.